Summer Self-Care Checklist for Overwhelmed Days
You love the idea of summer—the long evenings, the slower mornings, the breezy dresses and flip-flops and maybe even a road trip or two.
But here you are, somewhere between the second heatwave and the eighth load of washing, feeling low-key exhausted and wondering: Isn’t this supposed to be the relaxing season?
Summer can be a swirl of too-muchness: too much expectation, too many people to keep happy, too little time to yourself.
That’s why we created a short checklist to help on overwhelming days—not to add more, but to gently guide you back to what you need today.
Because here’s what I’ve learned (the hard way): self-care in summer doesn’t always look like bubble baths or beach escapes.
Sometimes it looks like sitting on the garden step for five minutes with your phone inside the house.
Or letting the kids watch one more episode so you can be alone in silence and remember what your own voice sounds like.
I’ve coached women through every kind of season, and summer—while beautiful—has a sneaky way of stealing our energy.
We keep trying to "make the most of it," but no one talks about how much it can take out of us, especially when we’re already carrying so much.
This checklist isn’t about self-improvement. It’s about self-preservation. And maybe even a little more joy.
Summer Self-Care Checklist for Overwhelmed Days
For when you feeling wobbly, weary or just a bit lost in the swirl of summer...
Try one or two. You don’t need to do them all.
1. Move to a cooler room—emotionally and literally.
If you’re overheating, physically or mentally, step into shade. It can be a room, a car, a headspace. Give yourself that pause.
2. Have a "bare minimum" day.
Pick 3 things: eat something, drink water, send one message. That’s enough.
3. Use your senses to re-centre.
Run your hands under cold water. Notice the texture of grass under your feet. Inhale something fresh—lavender, mint, citrus. Let your senses bring you back to the present.
4. Draw a boundary shaped like a hammock.
Say no to something, kindly. Then rest in the space it creates.
5. Write a tiny list of what’s working.
Even in the mess: the good coffee this morning, your kid’s laugh, the breeze through the window.
6. Reach for real connection.
One message to someone who sees you. Not for advice. Just for being seen.
7. Put your phone in a different room for 20 minutes.
Not forever. Just long enough to change the rhythm.
8. Move your body to move the moment.
Step outside. Stretch your arms overhead. Walk to the end of the street and back. A shift in motion can soften the stuckness.
9. Let something go half-done.
It can still be there tomorrow. And there’s something ok about that. Let it wait.
10. Ask yourself one kind question.
What would feel good right now? Then honour the first answer that comes.
Even one of these actions can shift your day, your breath, your summer.
What’s on your personal self-care checklist right now?
Which one of these would feel best today?
If this resonated with you, here are 3 ways to go deeper:
Join our Summer Wellcation – a 4-week self-guided online reset to reclaim your season.
Subscribe to our newsletter – for more ideas, inspiration and emotional support.
Browse our guide to overwhelm — for more ways to navigate the days when it all feels too much.
Let’s create a summer that feels like yours.
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